You admit it- you were one of those mad-as-hell single Moms who, following your divorce, vehemently proclaimed to anyone who would listen that the last thing you wanted to do was date, or even think about men. You had just lived through alimony, custody and child support battles, and the thought of being romantic with a member of the opposite sex made you feel physically ill.
Now that it’s six months later and you’ve come down from your slightly drama queenesque pedestal, you’re ready to take that proclamation off the table. Although you’d convinced yourself that you’d likely spend the better part of your single mommyhood cleaning your kid’s dirty underwear and scrubbing down your family’s bathrooms, you’ve come to the realization that the key to your happiness will never come to fruition staring down the rim of a toilet bowl.
While you’re aware that rebuilding your fragmented self-esteem will always be a work in progress, you’ve actually begun to feel a bit more comfortable in your single mom skin, and have even come to the conclusion that the dating pool waters might not be as murky as you once thought.
Sure you have trepidations and nagging reservations … you haven’t been single in years! You can’t remember the last time you hit a club or bar as a single gal. Just thinking about the awkwardness of going on a first date with a complete stranger makes you feel jittery. And if that weren’t enough to deter you from “getting out there,” your once taut body has been ravaged by two C-sections . . .