One of the most common issues that single guys seem to face is trying to find the best places to meet women. It’s not always easy to meet women for most guys, especially when you spend most of your time at work and then you have to come home feeling tired and weary. If you are not a fan of all of the more traditional places that guys use to meet women, then you can easily end up feeling like it’s almost impossible to find women you want to date.

Here are a few dating tips for guys on how to meet and attract beautiful women:

1. Hang out at only the trendiest clubs around your city.

There’s no use in hanging out at the usual dives that you are used to, especially since you already know that they are not exactly filled with the hottest women out there. Even though it might intimidate you, even though it might cost you a little more, you have to spend some time at the trendier clubs in your city or town. Most of the time, you will have no problem finding beautiful women that you can strike up a conversation with and that’s the whole point, right?

2. Pick up a hobby that seems to interest a lot of women.  Read more...

Zombies. They walk the earth. They shuffle around, going through the motions – they drag themselves to work, they shuffle through stores, they distract themselves with meaningless entertainment, they numb themselves with drugs and tranquilize themselves with food.

They do their job, come home and veg, maybe get aggravated at the family, eat, sleep,  and do it again the next day. And the day after that. In fact, this describes how most people sleepwalk through their lives.

It saddens me when I meet people who don’t have their own personal “thing”. Something they’re passionate about. Something that they DO, that gives them a UNIQUE IDENTITY. Something COOL.

It doesn’t have to be a colossal mission like tearing down “the system” – as Tyler Durden set out to accomplish in Fight Club. It might be a way to blow off some steam, express your creativity, adds value to your life, or just widens your social circle. And of course, that makes you interesting to girls.

So what sets you apart from the millions of other finance guys, middle managers, IT troubleshooters, small business owners etc? What attracts women to you? What’s YOUR thing?

If its cooking up meth in your kitchen or organizing travel groups to Al Quada training camps in Pakistan, you’ll get blown up and be deleted from the dating pool shortly. For everyone else, on with the show.

Uncool hobbies:  Read more...

Whether your ideal woman hangs out at the bar six nights a week and really knows how to party, or she’s shy, retiring and loves bookstores more than the spa, you have to get her attention! Meeting women and getting their attention in a favorable way is very difficult for some men, but check out some of the love tips to attract women listed below. Don’t forget that most women are out there looking too, and all you have to do is find each other.

1.Be forward, but not aggressive.

Buying a woman a drink or offering her a suggestion on the books she is trying to decide between is great; believing that it entitles you to something is most definitely not! If you are in a position to do something nice, do it, but don’t expect anything in return. This establishes you as a gentleman, and no matter what the guidebooks tell you, that’s exactly what most women are looking for.

2.Listen when she talks

Nothing is more flattering that someone who wants to listen. Don’t be disingenuous about it, that is, don’t fake an interest when something is boring you to tears. This is a lot more obvious than you might think it is, and a woman who realizes that you are only pretending to be interested will be a lot less predisposed to like you or enjoy your company. Instead, make it a point to find something interesting about what she says. Ask questions and before you know it, you might have a new hobby as well as a new girlfriend.  Read more...

Guys usually stick to the “safe topics” when they meet a woman for the first time. Questions usually revolve around the standard questions about her job, hobbies she enjoys, where she is originally from or where she lives. Yes, these questions can stir up a few “responses” from her but they definitely are not the best way to initiate an interesting conversation that will begin to build attraction.

Consider your goal. Are you trying to get her phone number, or a job? I ask only because “safe topics” are great choices if you are in a job interview but not if you are trying to create chemistry and pick her up.

Simply put, safe topics tend to bore women to the point of tears. She may answer your questions, but she is more likely than not also hoping for a “polite” way to end the conversation. Women are attracted to men who are interesting, funny and confident, and safe topics do not display any of these characteristics.

Most guys who stick to safe topics when talking they first meet a woman usually do so because they feel sexually-related topics are taboo and should be avoided. Rightfully so, they are concerned about looking sleazy or offending her and choose to stick to the topics guaranteed not to insult her.

Yes, by sticking to the safe questions you will be successful in not offending her. But, you will also bore her and not help you seduce her.  Read more...

Meeting women online is not as hard as it looks. Sites such as Myspace have some competition, but I would say that more than 60% of the guys on there don‘t have a clue on how to attract and seduce women.

Believe it or not, online dating is just like marketing. Here, you’re the product and you have to make your brand interesting and appealing to the women you want to date. When you make the initial contact, don’t screw up your first impression. If you do, you’ll come across as another loser who is just trying to get laid.

Here’s what you can do.

Step 1. Use a creative subject line in your message in order to get her attention.

Attract her with a with a catchy subject line.

For example. “You Seem Interesting…But”

This type of subject line creates a little bit of mystery for her. She’ll say, “Wait a minute. Did this guy find something wrong with me?” As a result, she will read your message. Make sure you avoid the “Hey sexy, how are ya?” subject lines. These will be deleted immediately.

Step 2: Get her to respond to your message.

(this is hard because she probably gets about 30-50 messages per day).

This is one of many ways to do it. Your message is got to have these 3 ingredients.  Read more...